Assalamualaikum. For today, I'd like to continue on what I've told you on the recent entries about mutual understanding. Mutual understanding is defined as the ability to sympathize with another person's feelings (4) I’ll give you an example of this quote,
Okay, let say if we do not love him/her, how could we achieve the mutual understanding part? Another example,
"You're a beautiful girl. An ugly guy came and confessed that he loves you like forever."
What would you do? You will accept him just like that? Accept him and forget your so-long-mr-right that you are just want to work it out? Just like that? Oh, if yes, then you are a good liar. This is another bitter truth. Why would you want to force yourself to love someone that loves you? Where you clearly don't have any feelings towards that guy? Just, stop. Stop wasting your time and most importantly, stop wasting their time. Stop gives them a false hope.
Love, it is something that we couldn't force. Yes, you can force someone to 'be with you', but you really can't force them to 'really loves you'. Care about your feelings, not others. Because some of them are not really with you when you need them the most. Right?
Assalamualaikum. For today, I'd like to continue on what I've told you on the recent entries about mutual understanding. Mutual understanding is defined as the ability to sympathize with another person's feelings (4) I’ll give you an example of this quote,
Okay, let say if we do not love him/her, how could we achieve the mutual understanding part? Another example,
"You're a beautiful girl. An ugly guy came and confessed that he loves you like forever."
What would you do? You will accept him just like that? Accept him and forget your so-long-mr-right that you are just want to work it out? Just like that? Oh, if yes, then you are a good liar. This is another bitter truth. Why would you want to force yourself to love someone that loves you? Where you clearly don't have any feelings towards that guy? Just, stop. Stop wasting your time and most importantly, stop wasting their time. Stop gives them a false hope.
Love, it is something that we couldn't force. Yes, you can force someone to 'be with you', but you really can't force them to 'really loves you'. Care about your feelings, not others. Because some of them are not really with you when you need them the most. Right?
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