Assalamualaikum. For today, I'd like to continue on what I've told
you on the recent entries about mutual understanding. Mutual understanding is defined as the ability to sympathize with another person's feelings (4) I’ll give you an example
of this quote,
Okay, let say if we do not love
him/her, how could we achieve the mutual understanding part? Another example,
"You're a beautiful girl. An
ugly guy came and confessed that he loves you like forever."
What would you do? You will
accept him just like that? Accept him and forget your so-long-mr-right that you
are just want to work it out? Just like that? Oh, if yes, then you are a good
liar. This is another bitter truth. Why would you want to force yourself to
love someone that loves you? Where you clearly don't have any feelings towards
that guy? Just, stop. Stop wasting your time and most importantly, stop wasting
their time. Stop gives them a false hope.
Love, it is something that we
couldn't force. Yes, you can force someone to 'be with you', but you really
can't force them to 'really loves you'. Care about your feelings, not others.
Because some of them are not really with you when you need them the most.
Right?
Okay, let say if we do not love
him/her, how could we achieve the mutual understanding part? Another example,
"You're a beautiful girl. An
ugly guy came and confessed that he loves you like forever."
What would you do? You will
accept him just like that? Accept him and forget your so-long-mr-right that you
are just want to work it out? Just like that? Oh, if yes, then you are a good
liar. This is another bitter truth. Why would you want to force yourself to
love someone that loves you? Where you clearly don't have any feelings towards
that guy? Just, stop. Stop wasting your time and most importantly, stop wasting
their time. Stop gives them a false hope.
Love, it is something that we
couldn't force. Yes, you can force someone to 'be with you', but you really
can't force them to 'really loves you'. Care about your feelings, not others.
Because some of them are not really with you when you need them the most.
Right?
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