Moving On and Letting Go

Sometimes, you have to ask yourselves. Is it hard to move on, once you are breaking apart after falling in love? For me, the one who created the term “move on” is a moron. Why I said so? This is because, do you really have to wait all the breaking parts and only then you can start a new life? For example, you do not wait for the brush of your toothbrush to fell off till you buy a new one, don’t you? This kind of matter, it is up to us. (12)

People might said that there is a big difference between move on part and letting go. For me, it was quite the same. Move on means you have to go on with your life and start a new one without looking back. While letting go is defined as letting go of something that hold us from move on. Do you get it? I mean, it is the same idea actually (13) We couldn’t do al these things if we are not doing one of it. But, most of all, it is up to us. What we have in our mind-set. If we believe we can do it, then, show to them, that we can live without them.

Men vs Women (In Love)

Okay, when it comes to love, who do you think have the passion more onto it? Some said that it is women because of their heart, some said it was men because of their loyalty and so on. But, the fact is, 48% of men are more romantic than women. (11) 

Yeah, I had to agree on that. Women, they usually love to be more like a baby. Sort of clingy I think. Ahaha. Yup, I know that because I’ve been there and done that. But, I think women is more loyal compared to men. (12) This is because maybe women had been granted with lots of feelings and that is why they could not manage it well, sometimes.

When it comes to loyalty, personally, I think that both gender should be blame when it leads to cheating. Let’s think of it, if one parties is not being flirty with another parties, that things wouldn’t happened, isn’t? For some men, they said that it was just for fun, but little they don’t know is, they will be a heartbreaker. Maybe for the girl he’s in love or the girl he was trying for fun. Who knows, what goes around will comes around. Right?

Love is Blind?

So, how do you do guys? Oh before that, assalamualaikum I greet to each one of you. Have you ever came across with this word, Love is Blind.

Frankly speaking, why on earth is everyone blaming on the love itself? As it is stated by Will Moss, "Love is not blind. It sees more and not less, but because it sees more, its willing to see less."  (10) I couldn’t agree more by saying that if we are in love, we will see everything beautiful, even his/her flaws. But, that is when we blame the love. We are saying that we put aside on everything else that matter and focuses on our ‘love story’. It’s like we have been blinded by the love, when it is not actually. I dare to say that we are all fools in love. 

         

The truth is, it is our faults. Love is something pure, something to be kept within, and something to be appreciated. Love is the purest feeling that God had sent to us. But why are we making it as it is the lust? Why are we using it to put the blame on others? Why not ourselves? So, I will continued on the next post in Men in love vs Woman in love

Love and Parents

Assalamualaikum my gorgeous and handsome readers! So, for today, I’d like to talk about the love between our parents and friends. Some said that friends are important than our families. But, some said vice versa. What do you say? I’ve read that, "A close friend is a mirror of your own self someone with whom you realize that, though autonomous, you are not alone."  

So, you get the idea? Yeah, for me it is true that friends will reflects who you are, but, if there are 10 of them, there is only one that we can trust. Even my father said that we couldn't trust the one that close to us. So, how come? As for me, I think that the one who close with their friends is maybe they are lonely. They might have a busy-working parents. It is stated that, "More than half parents said they regretted for not having more quality time with their children when they were younger." (8)

                                 

In this case, we could not possibly blame the kids itself. We have to dig the problem to roots and find the solution. Preventing is much better than curing, isn’t? Even me, myself, wouldn’t agree more towards this kind of matter. Imagine the ones that have no children, waiting for the kids for years but never be able to have one. Do you think that they will wasting their time to works if they got a slimy chance to have kids? Maybe they will appreciate more. I have come across an article that stated, "Having kids on the other hand, means giving up your selfish ways of living and devoting all your time and energy to them." (9) So, I think, maybe the one who have kids will understand more on the ones who don't, IF they get to know their true feelings on this parenting matters.

So, I think, maybe the one who have kids will understand more on the ones who don't, IF they get to know their true feelings on this parenting matters.

Love Towards Religion

Assalamualaikum peeps. So, before this, we are talking about love and stuffs how about on this post, we focusing on love towards our religion, parents and friends? Don’t you a bit dizzy when talking about love, and all you know is how to move on, how to accept the facts that we are not being loved back and others. When it talks about love, it defines everything. As it is said by Hameed,

“When you experience universal love you understand the action of love.” (5)

Don’t you understand that everything in this world, starts with us? For example, if we want someone to view our religion as a nice one, we should portrayed the good in us. So, people around us will see that we ourselves, represent our religion and maybe they will be attracted. As it is stated that, "The events of September 11, 2001, thrust Islam into the global media forefront: not only did coverage of Islam drastically increase, particularly in news and entertainment media, but the way in which Islam was framed by the media changed as well." (6) 

But, the whole point of this matter is, it starts with us, through actions. That is why there is a quote saying that action speaks louder than words. So, in the next chapter, I will told you about the love towards our parents and friend. So, adios guys! Assalamualaikum.

Mutual Understanding

Assalamualaikum. For today, I'd like to continue on what I've told you on the recent entries about mutual understanding. Mutual understanding is defined as the ability to sympathize with another person's feelings (4) I’ll give you an example of this quote, 

                         

Okay, let say if we do not love him/her, how could we achieve the mutual understanding part? Another example,

"You're a beautiful girl. An ugly guy came and confessed that he loves you like forever."

What would you do? You will accept him just like that? Accept him and forget your so-long-mr-right that you are just want to work it out? Just like that? Oh, if yes, then you are a good liar. This is another bitter truth. Why would you want to force yourself to love someone that loves you? Where you clearly don't have any feelings towards that guy? Just, stop. Stop wasting your time and most importantly, stop wasting their time. Stop gives them a false hope.

Love, it is something that we couldn't force. Yes, you can force someone to 'be with you', but you really can't force them to 'really loves you'. Care about your feelings, not others. Because some of them are not really with you when you need them the most. Right?

             

How Relationship Works?

Assalamualaikum handsome boys and beautiful girls of all universe. As you have read on my recent entries, I’ve told you what love is actually. Love, it would not be complete without having both gender. Or maybe it wasn’t? Yeah, it could either one. Who said that it is actually need both gender for love to bloom? 

Don’t you remember, the love between your parents, between you as a daughter and your mom, between you as a son and your father? Who said that we need both gender to make it complete cycle of love? But, people nowadays, they tend to think about their relationship goals with the partner, when it comes about love. Or is it me who is too skeptical? Aha! No, it wasn’t me. It is the bitter truth. Teenagers especially (3). So, talking about love, the wholly of this game is the mutual understanding. How do we know if we achieve the mutual understanding or not? So peeps, I will talk about it on the next entry. By the way, thanks for stopping by and have fun in reading! Assalamualaikum.

What is love?

                             

Love is when you stop trying to be perfect because you just know they will still love you wholly.

Love. People always define love as a form of having a tons of passion and feelings towards someone. Basically, it is between both gender, female and male. When talking about love, youth nowadays will imagined that having a lover, boyfriends and girlfriends, goals relationship and other crappy stuff. But, little that they don't know is, love was actually a universal form towards any kind of creature or things around us. (2)

For example, have you ever thought that having your own car, will actually make you fall in love with it? You will protect it no matter what happens. You will never let anyone even your closest friends drive it. You will not let any kind of scratch touch the body of your car. You will spent hundreds, even thousands just to make up your car. Have it ever crossed your mind? No isn't? Because you don't have any kind of feelings, yet. Same goes when it comes to your hobbies, or pets you'd love to adopt.

That kind of feeling, the feelings that you thought you would need it most, the feeling that you get when you want to spend it for the rest of your life for that one particular person/things, the feeling that you're scared you will lose it. Yeah. That is love. 

So, I have a video to show you, about what being in love actually. This is because people they tend to fall in love blatantly without thinking what are the consequences that they might have get. (1)