Love and Parents

Assalamualaikum my gorgeous and handsome readers! So, for today, I’d like to talk about the love between our parents and friends. Some said that friends are important than our families. But, some said vice versa. What do you say? I’ve read that, "A close friend is a mirror of your own self someone with whom you realize that, though autonomous, you are not alone." (7)

  

So, you get the idea? Yeah, for me it is true that friends will reflects who you are, but, if there are 10 of them, there is only one that we can trust. Even my father said that we couldn't trust the one that close to us. So, how come? As for me, I think that the one who close with their friends is maybe they are lonely. They might have a busy-working parents. It is stated that, "More than half parents said they regretted for not having more quality time with their children when they were younger." (8)

In this case, we could not possibly blame the kids itself. We have to dig the problem to roots and find the solution. Preventing is much better than curing, isn’t? Even me, myself, wouldn’t agree more towards this kind of matter. Imagine the ones that have no children, waiting for the kids for years but never be able to have one. Do you think that they will wasting their time to works if they got a slimy chance to have kids? Maybe they will appreciate more. I have come across an article that stated, "Having kids on the other hand, means giving up your selfish ways of living and devoting all your time and energy to them." (9)

So, I think, maybe the one who have kids will understand more on the ones who don't, IF they get to know their true feelings on this parenting matters.